by Ranae So
Fish maw soup is an excellent dish in the Hokkiens’ menu, especially for the wedding banquet and celebrating some Chinese festivals. It is mainly made up of deep fried fish maw (the air bladder of large fish), dried scallop, lean meat, chopped green onions, white pepper, salt and water (see the following photo).
Hokkiens is marine habitants who are originated from Fujian province in China. We can find the similar ‘boatprint’ in Southeast Asian countries, like Taiwan, Malaysia, Philippines, Singapore, Burma, Thailand and Indonesia.
In Hong Kong, they mainly scatter in the New Territories (for example, Taipo, Sai Kung and Tai O) and Aberdeen. The majority of them speak Chew Chau Hoklo or Hakka Hoklo. The language diversity is attributed to the ancestries and provinces originated from. But nowadays, many Hokkiens are resettled in the public housing estate . They are able to speak Cantonese as a kind of lingua franca .
Fish maw soup is one of the Hokkien dishes that open up one of the gateways for the non-Hokkiens to understand the ethnic history and development of the former. In fact, when I talked with my mum about the dish, she was so enthusiastic about sharing the information of the traditional Hokkien wedding ceremony and her personal experience of the arranged marriage. Undeniable is it that her feeling really influences me on how I value marriage and finding partner.
Hokkien is a patriarchic minority group. Men are always perceived as superior than women and are qualified as the only asset successor. When Hokkien woman gives birth to daughters, some of them would decide to drown the girls or sell as child brides in the old days. Obviously, it is the common scenario in Chinese society that women’s status is inferior compared to men. A lot of gender inequality can be found.
I think my mum’s story can show a tip of the iceberg about the Hokkien women’s choice of marriage. When my grandpa passed away, she became the only breadwinner in her family. At that time, she was only 12 years old. She had to work in the factories and sojourn in her relatives’ houses although she got the elder brother who was supposedly capable of earning a living to release the financial burden. Unfortunately, he had low incentive to work. But my grandma did not blame the laziness of my uncle instead of arranging marriage for him and needed my mum to do all housework, cook and serve the guests during the wedding ceremony.
Few years later, my grandma was rebuked by the relatives about her apathy on my mum. They suggested that my mum should get married. However, she never thought of finding a partner and did not want to marry someone who she was not familiar with.
But my grandma attempted to commit suicide to force my mum to accept such unreasonable decision. Before wedding, she only met my father twice.
Every time when I hear her story, I always have questions on my mind.
- Do I need to find the Hokkien man to marry with? But some of them are educational deficit, bumptious, and conservative in sense that they do not support gender equality…
- If I keep solitude, will my parents suddenly force me to receive the arranged marriage just as same as their case?
- Should we preserve the culture of the arranged marriage as a kind of symbol of recognizing the Hokkien-beings?
- Will the Hokkien wedding tradition decline when the younger generation is losing interest to learn, understand and conserve the culture?
- When the Hokkien children tend to Hongkonger-like, are they proud of their ethnic identity?
In the recent decades, Hong Kong is raising tempo to cosmopolitanize and globalize. Global and local citizenship override the significancy of the ethnic identification. The older Hokkien generation encounters many cultural shocks that they are forced to forgo their tradition means of production and living styles, but provide human capitals to blossom the Hong Kong’s economic growth. However, their efforts are always omitted the sight. Some of them easily become marginalized population.
Because of the majority population with low literacy, a lot of employers hire them as unskilled, part-time or temporary workers. The employment security is relatively low.
So they transfer their own dream and efforts of rearing child. They want their next generation to have a brighter future than them, neither working in fishing nor construction, logistics and manufacturing industries. But when their younger generation is heavily influenced by the mass culture and value, the maintenance of the ethnic identity and cultural inheritance is difficult to start. Where are their homes? Boat? Public housing estate? Hokkien identity? Or Hong Kong citizenship? It is really questionable.
Supplementary Information
(1) Cooking Method of Fish Maw Soup :
- Soak dried scallop and fish maw with a bowl of warm water for 2 hours. Squeeze out any excess water.
- Slice lean meat into small pieces
- Put dried scallop, fish maw and lean meat in a pot. Boil for one hour on medium heat.
- Add pepper, salt and chopped green onions when heat turns off.
(2) A Brief Summary of Hokkien Wedding Activity
In Hokkien culture, the wedding ceremony always lasts for 4 days.
Day 1:
- serve the relatives with meals to drum up any physical or financial supports on wedding, for example, preparing the Chinese wedding rite and ensuring enough number of people to participate in ‘rowing boat’ activity on next day to carry the brides to the groom’s families, and so forth.
- rowing boat in the morning and banquet in the evening
- serve the relatives with meals to thank their devotion to the whole wedding
- the brides’ first visit to their families after they get married
1) The colonial government implemented a series of land and economic policies for economic restructuring in 1970s and 1980s, removing the labour force from primary industry to the secondary/ tertiary sectors.
2) Lingua franca means the common language used by different groups for communication and exchange information.